Worried about bad influences that could lead your little one astray? Here’s how to steer her towards the right ones.
Avoid criticising her friends
When you say “I don’t want you to play with X”, your child sees it as a threat to her independence and it alienates her.
“Criticising her friends can drive her further into the arms of those people,” says Fauziah Shah, director at Petra Counselling Centre.
If your child is with someone whom you know is a bad choice, sometimes you have to sit back and let her realise that on her own.
Don’t be overprotective
When kids make mistakes, they have to deal with the fallout and nd out who they can and cannot trust.
“Over protectiveness weakens a child’s capacity to solve problems. If a child knows Mum or Dad is in control of what happens in her life and her decisions, there’s no motivation to make her own choices and be independent,” says Fauziah.
“Learning to deal with consequences is vital as she grows up.”
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