Ask Him Anything

Love advice from our guy guru, Logan Hill

Q. Be honest: Do men secretly love it when we steal their T-shirts? I feel like they do!

A. As much as it pains me to say it and as much as I worry this will contribute to the crime wave of girlfriends stealing cosy hoodies all over the planet... yes, it’s adorable. It’s sexy (even if you’re drowning in our XL fit). I can’t quite explain why, other than the fact that it feels kind of intimate to share something so comfy with you. I have one more thing to add: Katherine, if you’re reading this, I want my Adidas hoodie back, please. I haven’t seen it since year 11.

Q. I have this suspicion that my guy friend has romantic feelings for me. Any definitive signs I can look for?

A. Hmm, not really. Any guy is lucky to have a good female friend, and he never wants to come off like just another bro who’s being nice in order to get in her pants. If this buddy likes you, he’s probably scared he’ll wreck your friendship if he makes a move or tells you how he feels. But are you interested in him too? In that case, you can confess (which is also gambling your friendship) or have a discreet conversation with a mutual friend who may see your guy friend’s feelings more clearly than you can. If you’re not into this dude, though, just continue to act normally.

Q. Why do men deliberately wait for the woman to bring up wearing a condom pre-hook-up?