So you’re back dating and this time, instead of your parents’ approval, it’s your children you need on your side. Get it right from the start with our expert advice.
NO-ONE EVER SAID dating second time round was easy. But with a growing number of marriages ending in divorce, it’s a fact of modern life that more of us are finding ourselves single again. If that’s you, and you can’t bear the prospect of staying solo forever, you need to get back out on to the dating scene. Even after you’re ready to date again, there’s likely to be one big thing on your mind, and that’s your children.
‘It’s natural to feel nervous about getting back out there and the impact that will have on your children,’ says relationship counsellor Arabella Russell. ‘But you are allowed to meet someone new, and you shouldn’t feel guilty. You don’t need your kids’ permission, but you do need to understand what fears or concerns they may have.’
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This story is from the May 2018 edition of Good Housekeeping South Africa.
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