"He Wanted To Marry Another After I Had Raised His Kids For 20 Years"
Her World Malaysia|July 2017

Siti Hajar divulges how she’s rebuilt her life from scratch after her husband walked out of their marriage.

Poon Li-Wei
"He Wanted To Marry Another After I Had Raised His Kids For 20 Years"

“Life before marriage was simple. My family in Penang might not have done particularly well for themselves, but I had learnt how to be independent from young – working at a factory while taking up sewing jobs as a source of side income. But everything changed when I met my now ex-husband, who I was introduced to by my sister’s friend.

OUR HAPPY BUNCH

We hadn’t known each other for long before I decided that I’d marry him – a decision partly spurred on by the fact that he had three children whose mother had passed on. I’ve always loved children and my heart went out to them. Thankfully, they took to me like I was their own mother and I’m proud to say that two of them went on to graduate from university. I admit that I had hoped our life would improve financially after marriage, but sadly, that wasn’t the case. For a long while though, I was happy with the five more children we had been blessed with, making ours a merry family of 10. I continued to earn my keep by working as a promoter in a supermarket, taking sewing orders occasionally.

THE DISINTEGRATION OF OUR MARRIAGE

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