WHEN YOUR MOTHER enters her ninth decade, you make a point of being a little extra vigilant for any signs of decline—memory loss, bouts of repetition, a general acceleration of age-related deterioration.
Thankfully, my mother has been blessed with good health, and although she now needs to take someone’s arm while walking slowly up and down the hill to the family cottage, her mental faculties seem to have remained largely intact. But when she got inked after turning 80 last September, I started to wonder.
To celebrate Mum’s landmark birthday, we were planning a large party, but then, of course, everything had to be cancelled because of COVID-19. After all, her entire social circle is high risk, composed as it is of septuagenarian and octogenarian friends from her book (wine) club, her garden (wine) club and her church.
Instead, we arranged a small outdoor family lunch on the patio at the lake by the cottage.
My mother looks just like many grand mothers. She is short, plump and white-haired. She’s rosy and jolly, and when she laughs her eyes almost seem to disappear behind her chubby cheeks. She comes from an old, traditional Catholic family in Ottawa, Canada where she currently lives. She was a career civil servant, first in England and then in Canada. In short, she didn’t do crazy stuff.
That all changed a few years ago. She began to surprise my older brother and me with bouts of what she described as “independence.” At the time, we merely saw them as examples of irresponsibility and possibly some age-related questionable judgement.
This story is from the July 2021 edition of Reader's Digest UK.
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