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MY LEGAL SURNAME Schjeldahl, is complex and Norwegian. People see the jand abandon all hope of ever learning to pronounce or spell it. It's a name I use only for appointments, plane tickets, and my license. It's also the name of a prominent writer: my father.
Growing up, I wanted to be a writer myself, but I felt that job was taken. “You're not related to the art critic, are you?" people asked. If they gleaned that I had an interest in writing, they'd say, “Chip off the old block, eh?”
I hated that metaphor: He was a granite monolith, I a shard. He was leaving heavy footprints in the earth, while I tiptoed behind.
At 22, I was hired by The Austin Chronicle. (As uncomfortable as I felt pursuing a writing career, I couldn't get a job anywhere else.) As I filled out the new-hire paperwork, I discovered a little box that read dba, or "doing business as." That space vibrated with potential. Sitting at this newspaper's office, I was edging onto my father's turf. But when I saw that box, I thought, Who do I want to do business as? I wrote down Ada Calhoun.
Calhoun is my middle name. I was born on Saint Patrick's Day, so my parents named me after an Irish friend. ("How nice!" said Betsy Calhoun Baker. “But my name is Scottish.") With my new designation, I felt reborn. Ada Calhoun had no past, only a future. She was her own person. She was confident. She dressed sexier. She said her name and people didn't ask her to spell it 10 times. It wasn't just a pen name, though it did help me feel freer in writing articles for the Chronicle and, later, elsewhere. I used the name socially, too-most of my friends have no idea who Ada Schjeldahl is.
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