The novelist, whose critically acclaimed debut, The Incendiaries, comes out in paperback July 30, gets real about skincare, stereotypes, and the secret behind her striking eye makeup.
Q: You’re Korean American, and you recently wrote a New York Times op-ed about how we should stop calling Asian women “cute.” Where did that come from?
A: It was a reaction to comments aimed at Marie Kondo. The media were calling her a pixie and saying she’s cute, adorable, and fairylike. It was so dismissive. A lot of people don’t think that using this kind of language is racist, but it is.
Q: Have you experienced this?
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