What If It's Your Daughter?
THE WEEK|December 22, 2019
EVERY RAPE SHINES THE LIGHT ON OUR OWN UNSEEN SELVES AND AT THE CHOICES WE MAKE EVERY DAY. BLAME NO ONE. BLAME OURSELVES
Mathew T. George
What If It's Your Daughter?

Small actions and language. That is how it begins, said UN special adviser Adama Dieng, about genocide. It is the same with rape. The seeds fall thick around us all day. When men hit on women. When we pay money to watch her being objectified on screen. When she is shushed at home, at school, at work. When the crassest words are used to describe her. When we look the other way while she is abused in public. When we do and do not do some things, we are watering this tree knowing full well its nature. And when the toxic harvest is presented to us we try to cover our shame with a blanket of hashtags and bay for blood. Hypocrites!

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