I Am So Lonely But I Refuse To Date Women Who've Had Sex

I’m still a virgin and I really want to be with a woman who’s a virgin too, but I’m afraid it’s never going to happen. I’ve been in tons of relationships where I thought the girl was a virgin, but later found out she wasn’t.

- Coleen Nolan

Dear Coleen

Then there have been times when I’ve had crushes on certain girls, only for those crushes to die upon finding out about her past or current experiences. Long story short, I keep searching for someone to share something special with, only to find that all I can be is just another notch on someone’s bedpost.

I understand that jealousy is normal, and I definitely have insecurities. But I’d rather live with my insecurities than be with a girl who’s not a virgin, because I won’t be happy and, by extension, she won’t be either.