А mum's worst nightmare 'WE GOT THROUGH IT TOGETHER'
New Zealand Woman's Weekly|March 28, 2022
Melanie thought her daughter was just being a 'typical teen, but there was more going on
Fleur Guthrie
А mum's worst nightmare 'WE GOT THROUGH IT TOGETHER'

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Throughout high school, Alex Medland had always been a high-achieving, self-motivated student, putting the pursuit of A-grades ahead of her mental wellbeing.

And mum Melanie reckons when you're a bit of a perfectionist, like her eldest daughter, you follow through with 100 percent commitment to everything - including anxiety and depression.

Although the pair can share a wry smile about it now, they don't downplay the family's suffering after journeying alongside Alex, then 17, as she battled severe mental illness in 2018.

What started with regular tears, a panic attack at her school ball and slowly withdrawing from family time, scarily turned into depression, self-harm and attempted suicide.

“Sometimes when your child gets sick, you think it's your teenager just being a teenager and you don't know if them sleeping in is something you need to be more concerned about," says Melanie.

This story is from the March 28, 2022 edition of New Zealand Woman's Weekly.

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