A Second Chance

If only Jodie could understand that this was something she simply had to do

- Lisa Longbottom

You should get out more, Mum, make some new friends.’ I try to smile, but suspect it’s coming across as more of a twitch as I listen to the familiar speech from Jodie. I’ve only come round to drop off some post and I could do without a lecture.

‘I’ve seen these groups online. Don’t bite my head off, it will be good for you – ”all ages, everybody welcome”. You can meet new people, enjoy nights out and have some fun.’

I know Jodie worries about me, but her idea of what I should be doing since Rick and I divorced is very different to mine. She’s recently moved to be nearer her job, wanting to spend less time commuting, so I don’t see as much of her now.

Jodie’s mouth is fixed in a determined line as she takes a deep breath before she continues.

‘Just because you and Dad have gone your separate ways doesn’t mean you can’t have some fun in your life. And you never know, you might even meet somebody else? Maybe somebody who is less adventurous than Dad was, who wants less excitement from life.’

I cut in, before she can carry on, though I know she means well.

‘Something more exciting than being a parent?’

Jodie sighs.

‘No, Mum, you’re twisting my words. I only mean because you’ve always enjoyed more homely tasks. See, this looks interesting.’

She waves her hand at the screen, pointing to a class for cake decorating.

‘This would be perfect for you, and it will be a night out every week.’