A-Z OF LOVE LINGO

FROM CATFISHING TO NEGGING, OUR ESSENTIAL GUIDE TO THE JARGON OF ROMANCE WILL ENSURE YOU ARE ALL CLUED UP ON VALENTINE’S DAY

- LALALALETMEEXPLAIN

Are you up to speed with the latest dating terms? Do you know how to relate to current convos about love? Whether you’re in a long-term relationship, back in the dating pool or simply want to unpick what on earth they’re talking about on Love Island, there’s a whole lexicon out there that you need to get to grips with if you want to navigate the minefield of modern romance.

Fortunately for the confused, Instagram educator and sex and relationship expert LalalaLetMeExplain is on hand with some serious “beducation” to offer…

A. IS FOR ATTACHMENT STYLE

The way you bond with partners is largely formed in childhood, although it can change with therapy or adult relationships. Attachment styles range from secure to insecure and avoidant/anxious/fearful.

Read Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel SF Heller.

B IS FOR BREADCRUMBING

This is the act of having just enough communication with someone to make them think you're interested while knowing you're not.

If someone is dropping "crumbs" instead of initiating "full-blown meals", they're probably not that into you.

C IS FOR CATFISH

 A person who pretends to be someone else online. You can spot them on the dating apps with their far too perfect pictures and frequent excuses for not being able to meet or video call. Be especially wary if they ask for money when you've never met.

D IS FOR DEMISEXUAL

Demisexuals are similar to those asexual people who don't feel any attraction or desire towards others.

However, people who identify as demisexual can feel some attraction, but only if and when an emotional bond has already been formed. Even then, the sexual desire may be low.

E IS FOR ETHICAL NONMONOGAMY