Girls just wanna have fun(ds)...and style, and love

Nine Cosmo India contributors spill the deets on how to live your best life.

- Interviews by Diya J Verma & Stuti Agarwal Illustration by Tanya Chaturvedi

Sakshi Sindwani and Raghav Arora Content Creator & Entrepreneur

When you respect one’s boundaries, values, and upbringing—and treat them as you'd hope to be treated yourself—you beckon a strong relationship. Having your partner's best interest at heart is key... Understand that on some days they may have a mere 20 per cent to offer, while a solid 80 per cent on other days. You must learn to fill in for each other.

Raghav and I always communicate. We share our dreams, give ourselves the space to grow, and never cross a boundary during an argument. These conscious choices have strengthened us.

When you're comfortable with yourself and can allocate time for personal growth, you're truly secure in your relationship. For the two of us, it’s not forced... communicating is not a task; on days we don’t have the capacity to communicate, we aren't insecure about it.

You see, our relationship isn't suffocating. A partnership can thrive if you feel a sense of comfort, security, and mutual growth. If you're free in your mind and soul, and are truly happy, you can thrive. Life is tough; let go of the trivial things, avoid microanalysing. Remember, everyone makes mistakes.

Raghav and I never take date nights for granted; we're childishly excited about each other and realise that small moments matter most. If you have found your person—one who helps you grow, is your biggest cheerleader, and doesn't burden you with expectations—hold onto them, appreciate them. Believe them when they say, “pyaar dosti hain” (love is friendship).

Ayush Mehra and Aashna Vijay

Actor & Content Creator