THE SHY GIRL'S GUIDE TO MAKING THE FIRST MOVE BEFORE WINTER BREAK

The countdown to the holidays is officially on, and you’re pumped…mostly.

The only problem? You swore to yourself this would be the semester you’d finally ask out that cutie you’ve been pining over since, well, forever.

Stop dreaming, babe, and start doing: We’ve got the checklist for catching you-know-who’s eye before the ball drops. Call it the 12 Days of Crushmas—but our version ends with a genuine connection between you and your true love. (Because, honestly, who wants a partridge in a pear tree?)

DAY 1

GET IN THE RIGHT HEADSPACE

Stoking a spark is easier when you’re feeling self-assured, confident and aware of your own awesomeness (vs. just sitting there praying they need to borrow a pen). So wear that sweater you feel extra cute in, be the one who debates your teacher on the dangers of forever chemicals and volunteer to organize a pre-final cram sesh. Because when you put yourself in situations where you can shine, you light up the room. And suddenly the chemistry is, well, organic.

DAY 2

START WITH “HEY”

Break the ice with a short and simple hello. Next time you bump into each other in the hallway, throw out a “hi” or lean over to them at the next desk and ask a question (“Do you know when the volleyball game is tonight?”). No need to stretch the conversation past its prime: A little bravery, a display of sincere interest and a warm smile can do a lot to advance the plot.

DAY 3

CATCH THEM AWAY FROM THE CREW