Give and take
New Zealand Listener|July 6-12 2024
We're likely to reciprocate if someone's nice to us unexpectedly.
MARC WILSON
Give and take

It's rubbing it in to tell you I'm travelling to a conference, taking a slow route through North America, while New Zealand "enjoys" winter. As a consolation, Houston and New Orleans have been marked by thunder and lightning and sudden tropical downpours.

Galveston, though... a little humid, but otherwise delightful. In Galveston, we experienced our first Southern Hospitality, "Social Hour" at our bed and breakfast. "Fancy a complimentary Old Fashioned?" "Yes, indeedy," says I. And it was good. Social hour ran quite a bit longer than an hour, and there was another Old Fashioned, too. Over two evenings we offset about two-thirds of our lodging cost in cocktails.

It also wasn't the only complimentary beverage. At the first Galveston store we walked into, we were offered a free wine or beer. We're not in Aotearoa any more, clearly. "Um, could we have a water please?" my wife asked, and a couple of bottles of water materialised. We browsed a bit to make it clear we weren't just there for the water, and bought a humorous dish cloth.

This story is from the July 6-12 2024 edition of New Zealand Listener.

Start your 7-day Magzter GOLD free trial to access thousands of curated premium stories, and 9,000+ magazines and newspapers.

This story is from the July 6-12 2024 edition of New Zealand Listener.

Start your 7-day Magzter GOLD free trial to access thousands of curated premium stories, and 9,000+ magazines and newspapers.

MORE STORIES FROM NEW ZEALAND LISTENERView All
First-world problem
New Zealand Listener

First-world problem

Harrowing tales of migrants attempting to enter the US highlight the political failure to fully tackle the problem.

time-read
3 mins  |
September 9, 2024
Applying intelligence to AI
New Zealand Listener

Applying intelligence to AI

I call it the 'Terminator Effect', based on the premise that thinking machines took over the world.

time-read
2 mins  |
September 9, 2024
Nazism rears its head
New Zealand Listener

Nazism rears its head

Smirky Höcke, with his penchant for waving with a suspiciously straight elbow and an open palm, won't get to be boss of either state.

time-read
2 mins  |
September 9, 2024
Staying ahead of the game
New Zealand Listener

Staying ahead of the game

Will the brave new world of bipartisanship that seems to be on offer with an Infrastructure Commission come to fruition?

time-read
4 mins  |
September 9, 2024
Grasping the nettle
New Zealand Listener

Grasping the nettle

Broccoli is horrible. It smells, when being cooked, like cat pee.

time-read
3 mins  |
September 9, 2024
Hangry? Eat breakfast
New Zealand Listener

Hangry? Eat breakfast

People who don't break their fast first thing in the morning report the least life satisfaction.

time-read
3 mins  |
September 9, 2024
Chemical reaction
New Zealand Listener

Chemical reaction

Nitrates in processed meats are well known to cause harm, but consumed from plant sources, their effect is quite different.

time-read
4 mins  |
September 9, 2024
Me and my guitar
New Zealand Listener

Me and my guitar

Australian guitarist Karin Schaupp sticks to the familiar for her Dunedin concerts.

time-read
2 mins  |
September 9, 2024
Time is on my side
New Zealand Listener

Time is on my side

Age does not weary some of our much-loved musicians but what keeps them on the road?

time-read
7 mins  |
September 9, 2024
The kids are not alright
New Zealand Listener

The kids are not alright

Nuanced account details how China's blessed generation has been replaced by one consumed by fear and hopelessness.

time-read
4 mins  |
September 9, 2024