Ageless bonds

Exploring how friendships evolve and thrive after 30

- Sapna Sarfare

Relationships are always precious in our lives, be it our family or friends. It is often said that meeting people and connecting or even making friends at a slightly older age or even post-30s is tough. At times, even the friend's circle dwindles and you are left with those close to be counted on your fingers. We talk about whether friendships are a possibility after you turn 30.

What's the deal?

When asked if meeting, connecting and making friends post your 30s is tough and friend circle dwindles, Parth Gupta, Co-Founder and Head Psychologist, of The Mind Mojo, reveals, "It feels more difficult as we grow older because we perceive challenges more acutely and become more skeptical. The circle shrinks as one starts prioritizing quality over quantity in friendships. With the lack of time, maintaining friendships without genuine bonding becomes challenging. Suddenly, those gossip sessions feel more annoying than enjoyable."

Vidya Khan, a psychologist, hypnotherapist, somatic and energy coach, adds, "Psychologically we have become mature by age of 30 having capabilities to see through a person and knowing your priorities. Family, work, children and money responsibilities have kicked in. Pressure of ambition also becomes larger by 30. Friends and making new friends have taken a back seat. Post 30 socializing with friends and making new friends becomes a matter of choice and priority."