Every Sunday morning he lay in bed waiting for the text message he received like clockwork each week.
“Daddy, what time are you picking me up for church?” Jesse Hess would ask.
But the messages stopped coming four months ago. All Lance Hess has left now are photographs and memories of his 18-year-old daughter – the lovely girl who only wanted to help others, the gentle soul who wouldn’t hurt a fly.
Jesse became another victim of gender-based violence when she was killed in early September in the flat she shared with her maternal grandfather in Parow, Cape Town.
The University of the Western Cape student was raped and murdered soon after University of Cape Town student Uyinene Mwretyana was slain in a Cape Town post office. And when thousands of people took to the streets to demand the authorities do something about the violence, posters showing Jesse’s smiling face bobbed alongside those of Uyinene.
For Lance (41), the past few months have been filled with turmoil. Jesse wasn’t the only one murdered that day – her 91-year-old grandfather lost his life too. And then, after cops had had no leads for two months, they arrested two men in connection with the murders – and one of them, David van Boven, is Jesse’s second cousin on her mom’s side.
Van Boven and Tasliem Ambrose have appeared in court and were denied bail.
Lance has made a determined effort not to allow himself to become consumed with anger at his daughter’s alleged killers.
“I’ve made peace with it because if I don’t, it will break me,” he tells us.
“I don’t want to carry hatred. I believe justice will prevail and when that day comes, I know it will be good. It will ease the pain just a little bit.”
THE last time he saw his daughter alive was on 30 August when he picked her up at university, where she was a first-year theology student.
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