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On the flip side, Netflix reportedly encourages harsh feedback and holds dinners where staff go around the table criticizing others (gulp)*. In Silicon Valley, the trend is ‘radical candour’, a concept developed by executive coach Kim Scott, where bosses ‘challenge directly’ and tell the employees how they can improve.
So how do you ensure feedback helps, rather than harms, your career (and your self-esteem)? We asked the experts for you...
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