Why You Still Want Him!

He’s suddenly turned up and now you don’t know how to act. Don’t worry, we’ve got you covered.

- Emma Bradshaw and Zoe Collins

Holy. F%#*. You’ve just spotted your ex – on a day you don’t feel or look your best – and he’s heading straight for you! “What’s on his mind? Is that his new girlfriend? Do I look okay? Do I still love him?”

Ideally, when you bump into someone you’ve dumped or been ditched by, your hair and make-up is on point, you’re wearing the hottest Topshop collab from head to toe. That’s the dream, sweetie. Most likely, you’ve got day-old hair, wearing tights with your too-old sneakers and also forgot to swipe on some lippie that morning.

But, beyond the superficial, running into an ex-lover, or ex-boyfriend doesn’t have to be a drama; you just have to know how to act when the time comes. We also help you with expert advice on how to deal. Read on...

The one... WHO GOT AWAY

You still pine over him and can’t quite figure out why you let this relationship fall by the wayside.

DO: Be casual and let him take the lead. If he suggests a catch-up, say yes if you think there might still be something between you.