Can't stop thinking about the One that got away

I'M a married woman in my early 40s and a mum to a toddler and a pre-schooler. I'm happy with my life and know I'm very lucky I have a lovely man and cherish my family.

Dear Coleen

However, recently I've been dreaming a lot about this guy I got to know years ago at work.

We had to work closely together on a big project and I guided him a lot, as I was the senior team member and, at 32, I was six years older than him.

We had such an incredible connection it felt like I'd known this person all my life. I loved his smile, he was so cool and funny, and we had many enjoyable times together both inside and outside of work.