Facebook Pixel Hold My Hand | Tatler Malaysia - lifestyle - Read this story on Magzter.com
Go Unlimited with Magzter GOLD

Go Unlimited with Magzter GOLD

Get unlimited access to 10,000+ magazines, newspapers and Premium stories for just

$149.99
 
$74.99/Year

Try GOLD - Free

Hold My Hand

Tatler Malaysia

|

April 2024

In conjunction with Autism Awareness Month, Tatler speaks to autistic savant pianist Clarence Kang and his mother Joyce Lim about their journey and a mother's enduring love

- Kiran Pillay

Hold My Hand

In the lobby of Prince Court Medical Centre, autistic savant pianist Clarence Kang comforts visitors with his music, playing stirring instrumental renditions of contemporary pop hits. “Sometimes, patients come by to wait for his performances with their IV drip bags in hand. Although Clarence has his difficulties, he is living proof that everyone has a purpose in life and can contribute in some way to society,” asserts his mother, Joyce Lim. Kang also performs at Gleneagles Hospital Kuala Lumpur, rotating between locations every month. As Lim says, “Music heals the soul.”

Diagnosed as a child with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) and Attention Deficit Hyperactive Disorder (ADHD), Kang was 10 years old when he began to play the piano formally. Able to read books and decipher difficult words as an infant, it was little surprise that the young outlier could play challenging musical arrangements without formal instruction. Comfortably reading music and analysing complex chords, Kang has eidetic recollections of the compositions he learns. He has since come under the tutelage of some notable piano instructors, including Juilliard scholar Dr Nicholas Ong.

Although autism awareness has come a long way over the last 20 years, Lim still recalls a time when people would accuse her, the mother of three, of being a “bad parent,” blaming her for Kang’s inability to connect with people in conventional ways. “Clarence’s way of communicating is through his music,” Lim says, proud of her son’s achievements.

MORE STORIES FROM Tatler Malaysia

Tatler Malaysia

Tatler Malaysia

From First Steps to Future Leaders

The 40-year legacy of The children's house that ensures it is always the first choice for modern parents

time to read

2 mins

April 2026

Tatler Malaysia

Tatler Malaysia

AI in Malaysian Education

As artificial intelligence enters classrooms across Malaysia, schools and universities are rethinking how students learn and teachers teach for a rapidly evolving future

time to read

4 mins

April 2026

Tatler Malaysia

Tatler Malaysia

FULL HOUSE

Sheree Stuart Design brings playful interiors to a net-zero family retreat on Eugenia Lake in Ontario

time to read

4 mins

April 2026

Tatler Malaysia

Tatler Malaysia

Focus Lost, Focus Found

As attention spans shrink in the digital age, parents hold more power than they realise to protect and strengthen their child's ability to focus

time to read

4 mins

April 2026

Tatler Malaysia

Tatler Malaysia

The Epsom Edge

Where academic excellence meets the heart of boarding

time to read

4 mins

April 2026

Tatler Malaysia

Tatler Malaysia

GONE SHOPPING

A trip to a supermarket or market is one of most universal of human rituals—and now, it's also one of biggest travel trends

time to read

5 mins

April 2026

Tatler Malaysia

Tatler Malaysia

ON THE WILD SIDE

Gir National Park, in India's Gujarat state, is the only place outside of Africa where you can see lions in the wild. It is also home to a luxury safari lodge where personal butlers shadow your every step and an Ayurvedic doctor reads your entire life from a single pulse point

time to read

5 mins

April 2026

Tatler Malaysia

Tatler Malaysia

Towering Luxury

The 52nd floor is now home to a collection of two new penthouses for guests to truly feel at home in the heart of Jakarta's Sudirman Central Business District

time to read

2 mins

April 2026

Tatler Malaysia

Tatler Malaysia

A New Toolbox

The education landscape is rapidly changing-here are ten essential education terms every parent should know, spanning from the early years through to university

time to read

3 mins

April 2026

Tatler Malaysia

Tatler Malaysia

A Global Education Pathway

With campuses in Kuala Lumpur and Iskandar Puteri, Sunway International Schools offers students a globally focused education shaped by diverse academic pathways, strong values and an environment that encourages learning beyond the classroom

time to read

2 mins

April 2026

Listen

Translate

Share

-
+

Change font size