All You Need To Know About Female Orgasm

All you need to know about female orgasm

- Swapna C

PURPOSE OF A FEMALE ORGASM DURING SEX

Sex here refers to penovaginal intercourse during which there is almost a 100 per cent guarantee that a man will experience an orgasm when he ejaculates or spills his seed, which is a reproductive need.

There are some researchers who study subjects like why a female orgasm is not a reproductive need, which is why fewer women experience an orgasm during sex.

Then there are theories to counter this one, which study how a female orgasm ensures the woman is more likely to conceive because it helps suck in more sperm. Apparently, achieving an orgasm also keeps her interested in having sex again and again, which increases the chances of conception.

But the point is what would you rather focus on: The reproductive necessity of the female orgasm or the fact that almost every woman is capable of experiencing one with you?

WHY SHOULD MEN HAVE ALL THE FUN?

Thirty something year old Rita from Mumbai confided in Sexuality Educator and counsellor Niyati Shah that her husband only touched her in bed, went straight for intercourse without even considering her desires and was done in five minutes.

When Niyati shared that other clients have described similar experiences, one scene popped in my head. The one in the movie Lust Stories where the bride is counting seconds till her husband climaxes. The husband is satisfied but the wife feels like the show barely started and the curtains dropped.

Though not every man is that ignorant or even deliberately inconsiderate, even the ones with the desire to please find the female orgasm a big mystery. It is true that the physiology of a female orgasm is different and exciting, and not at like what is described in popular fiction.