Discovering The Best Of You

Before The One Finds You!

Are pesky parents, curious relatives and friends tying the knot getting on your nerves? Being single can be a bit frustrating at times. Some might say, “hold on, have patience, the right one is just around the corner”. But does waiting patiently ensure that you will end up with the right one. Believing in your destiny and the chance that you will magically stumble upon your soulmate one day is fine but that should not deter you from going out, exploring the world and discovering the best version of yourself. There are certain aspects that you need to work on before “happily ever after” knocks at your door.

Healing is crucial. You can’t live a peaceful life if the wounds of the past still catch hold of you in your weakest moments. Give yourself some time to heal from the open wounds that should have either become scars or not left any marks at all. Don’t let your past loom over what could be a luminous present and future. Only when you let go of all the toxicity and tend to yourself emotionally, will you find it easy to enjoy the joyous and wonderful things life has to offer — love being one of them. It might not be as simple as it sounds but it’s not impossible either. There is no point beating yourself over the “what ifs” and “should haves”. Life is a continuous cycle of hurting and healing yourself, make sure you follow it.