HANDLING AGGRESSIVE TODDLER BEHAVIOUR

Are you struggling with your toddler’s outbursts? Here, Ella Ryan looks at some ways to tackle aggressive behaviour during this colourful phase of your child’s life.

As a toddler, a child will not have developed the necessary skills to deal with their feelings yet. They need you to show them how to healthily express their emotions and they need some guidance over how to behave. While the occasional temper tantrum is normal, there are plenty of things you can do to influence your toddler’s behaviour positively. So, what are they?

SUPPORTING YOUR CHILD’S BEST BEHAVIOUR

Teach house rules

Children have no idea what rules to follow at home unless you clearly and persistently teach them. Establish consistent boundaries at home as this is the foundation layer for teaching good behaviour. Toddlers are naturally curious and want to touch and explore the environment around them. If there is anything valuable you don’t want them to handle, be sure to hide or remove it. Consider making a specific area in your house where your child can play with books and toys so they are less likely to catch sight of forbidden items. Whenever children break an important rule, alk gently to them immediately so they can link together their action and the rule being broken.

Don’t use threats

Threats are not helpful. It’s always more effective to positively reinforce the behaviour you want to see or to teach children alternative behaviours than to say something like “stop that or…”. It’s important to ask toddlers to use their words instead of acting out next time they feel angry.

Distractions can be good