Just not weddy for my Valentine bride

JANE O'GORMAN SOLVES YOUR PROBLEMS TODAY AND EVERY DAY

- JANE O'GORMAN

I'M NOT SURE IT IS LOVE 

I PROPOSED to my girlfriend on Valentine's Day last year.

I wasn't planning to go down on one knee, but I'd had a few drinks and it felt like the expected thing to do.

I offered a rubber band instead of a ring and we chose a diamond a few days later.

Now Valentine's Day has rolled around again, and I've been dragging my feet. She keeps on at me to agree a wedding date.

She's keen on September 14.

But I'm not even convinced we love each other. We only meet up once a week and rarely text. I'm heavily invested in my job while she hangs out with her sisters who have young children.

On the rare occasions we have sex, it's OK, but we don't exactly set the bed on fire.