We had a call from Chris in late March 2022 letting us know he was in Poland and not at home in Cheltenham. He had been staying with me and his dad Rob in Cornwall that February while he recuperated from a small eye operation. During that time, Russia invaded Ukraine and we noticed he was immersed in the news about it.
We found out after he had gone to Poland that he had been touring army and navy shops, buying gear to help the Ukrainians.
He took it back to Cheltenham, where he was working as a running coach, gave up his job and got a flight to Warsaw. He told us not to worry as he was just helping with logistics.
Chris was always active and sporty and very principled. Even from a young age, he would support the underdog. I suppose it wasn't a surprise that he felt compelled to go, although he had never done aid work before.
In Poland, Chris met an American, Brandon, who had a company in Ukraine but wasn't allowed over the Poland/Ukraine border to check on his employees in a hire car. Chris said he'd buy a van and they would go together.
SAVING CIVILIAN LIVES
For the first few months, Chris told us he was based on the Polish border as he didn't want to worry us. But we later learnt he was staying with Brandon and his team in Lviv, and Brandon sponsored him to continue his aid work. It was there that Chris met a Ukrainian woman, Ola, who became his girlfriend. We were pleased he'd met someone and he seemed very happy.
We knew Chris would want to do as much as possible to make a difference, and he ended up at the front line helping people to escape. He told our daughter Kate, 31, what he was doing but she was sworn to secrecy to stop us worrying.
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