Decoded - His Sex Style Signs

What his signals say about how he feels about you and how you can use the hints to your advantage.

- Siew Ching Chua

Is he a giver or a lazy participant? When it comes to the deed, does he go with full gusto or is he the type to pull back? Not too sure what to make of your guy’s bedside manners? We decode his sex signals so you know what is going on and how you can work it to your advantage.

SEX STYLE #1: The NonParticipant

SOUNDS FAMILIAR? “Having sex with Richard* can be a tiring thing. Not because he goes on all night but because he’s not as eager as I am! He puts in minimum effort in foreplay and expects me to do everything else. He is definitely a taker when it comes to sex, which annoys me because some days I like to be the one on the receiving end instead.” – Sarah*

DECODED! Talk about a lazy lover! When it comes to sex, some men are more interested in their own pleasure than in yours. Foreplay to him is something to quickly get out of the way so he can have his turn – you doing everything while he lies back, enjoys and does nothing at all. Which is good if you are one to please but hey, you deserve some attention too! After all, isn’t sex mostly a two-person game?

BREAK HIS STYLE Sometimes all it takes to break this style is a little bit of prompting on your end. So the next time he is getting ready to take a lie back, tell him – sexily – the things you want him to do. Encouragement never fails, especially in bed. Still not getting the message? Whenever he starts assuming his non-participating role, do the same. We are willing to bet that is bound to get him changing his style immediately.

SEX STYLE #2 The Fantasy Fan