Expectations Versus Reality

For every couple, becoming parents is like stepping into a brave new world: it is an uncharted territory and expectations rarely match reality. Any number of books or any amount of advice will not prepare you for the experience of being a parent. This is because it is the unique for everyone. Parents have some common expectations of their children and some impressions about the parenting experience. Let us take a look at these to understand if they are on the mark or if reality is another matter entirely!

- Jitendra Karsan

Babies on social media versus your own child

We have all seen those cute, baby videos or forwards of genius children on the piano. Children are adorable, there is no doubt about that. But it is important not to get carried away. We must remember that children in social media videos and adverts are as messy and prone to mood changes as ‘regular children’.

Work-life balance versus dedicating your time to your child.

All couples go into parenting understanding that it takes time and dedication. However, and this holds especially true for working couples, you might have underestimated just how much time is needed to take care of your child, and just as importantly, when. If you are considering the option of having another child, it may be good to think about the following aspects. Yes, you have done it once, but reminders help! Looking after a new-born is a full-time job and it is a great idea to make use of maternity and paternity leave to the fullest extent when possible. Children’s ss needs and the timing of those needs can vary drastically. If you are lucky to have a new-born that sleeps through the night, your daily schedule might not be irreparably disrupted.