Navigating Your 20s: A Simple Guide

By embracing the tumultuous journey through her 20s, Abhilasha Srivastava learnt to triumph over the challenges encountered and carve the path for her future

- Abhilasha Srivastava

Your 20s are like starting a big adventure. It's a time full of excitement and possibilities, but it can also be a bit overwhelming. You're trying to balance your dreams with what others expect from you. This journey is not just about facing challenges but also about growing, being strong, and finding your own way.

A Personal Journey Through Challenges and Triumphs

When I think about my early 20s, one summer stands out clearly. I was 22, working a part-time job at a busy coffee shop while finishing my last year at university. It felt like trying to juggle flaming torches exciting but nerve-wracking. That summer was chaotic, filled with challenges and also a lot of personal growth. Here's what I learned about handling my 20s.

The Overwhelming Summer

The summer heat was intense. I remember one afternoon when it felt like the sun was melting everything around me. Inside the coffee shop, I was behind the counter, trying to keep up with an endless line of customers. The heat wasn't just outside; it felt like it was in the air, adding to the pressure I was already under. I wasn't just struggling with the rush of coffee orders. I was also anxious about my future. Final exams were approaching, and the thought of what would come next was overwhelming. I felt like my friends were navigating their lives effortlessly—landing impressive internships, getting stable jobs, or making big decisions about their futures. Meanwhile, I was trying to keep up with latenight study sessions and long coffee-shop shifts.

One rough evening, I found myself alone in my small apartment, surrounded by textbooks and empty coffee cups. I felt lost and on the verge of tears. I decided to step back and think about what was stressing me out. It became clear that I was trying to do too much at once. I needed to simplify my approach and focus on what truly mattered.

Metamorphosis