ADVENTOROUS DATING

To find the love you seek, date someone who is not your ‘type’.

- WANGUI MUCHUI

We all have a type when it comes to men. If you look at your ex’s, they will have similarities.

Perhaps they are all dark skinned, introverts, and of the same tribe. Maybe dating the same kind of man is the reason true love eludes you.

It is time to take a leap of faith, date outside your comfort zone. As long as you maintain your values, a little adventurous dating will not hurt. This does not mean you jump into bed with these fellows, that is a whole different ball game. Rather, go for dates with the following ‘types’, you never know you may just make a love connection.

THE BEN-10

A Ben-10 is a man younger than you and who is eyeing you. It is not always that the fellow has ‘mommy issues’ or is after money. Perhaps he is drawn to your beauty, confidence and emotional maturity. The young guy will likely be baggage free, have loads of stamina and want to go all out to impress you. His boundless energy will rub offon you and he will become your youth fountain. But bear in mind that due his limited life experience, he may lack relationship skills like communication and how to handle conflict. Thus, he may not be seeking a long term commitment.

THE CREATIVE