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"As we roll along the run-up to Christmas, I find there’s nothing more prevalent than the feeling of what this season should be about. I should be excited, cheerful, generous of spirit and wallet. These things are possible as long as the cup from which I pour is topped-up. But then there’s life and all its requirements, all the stressors and hurdles and never-ever-ending laundry. A full (or at least not empty) cup helps us operate from a place of calm.
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Red flags IN YOUR FINANCES?
Worried that a loved one (or yourself) might be being controlled by a partner? The experts explain what to look out for - and what to do
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The sacred everyday
Getting in touch with the natural world in which your ancestors lived could open your eyes to a mystical, hopeful new reality, writes ritualist Rebecca Campbell
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Can you think yourself healthy?
Forget popping pills, it's time to discover your mind's power to heal you, writes Kellie Gillespie-Wright
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I crave adventure, but want to know where I'm going
It's not easy to balance the lure of the new with the need to be still for those around her, reflects Caro Giles
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Divorce shouldn't be seen as a negative thing'
TV presenter Laura Hamilton on why she believes happiness is in our own hands. By Lauren Taylor
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ONE STEP AT A TIME
Have your best intentions slipped already? Elaine lljon Foreman and Clair Pollard share some ways to create change that sticks
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"You need someone to look into your eyes and say It's going to be all right'
International best-selling author and psychologist Dr Julie Smith tells Sally Saunders how she has coped with global success - and life-changing news
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Find your VOICE
Try these simple steps to become a more confident communicator, says Kellie Gillespie-Wright
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TIME FOR A NEW perspective?
Sometimes you need to take a step backwards to move forwards, discovers Emma Cooling
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Simple, daily habits to keep your stress levels in check
From humming to imagining yourself in the future, wellbeing experts share their favourite ways to keep calm when the world feels crazy