Dealing with unwelcome attention
Q I lost my husband 18 months ago, which was hard. My friends and their partners were very kind to me and helped me through the early stages of my grief, both emotionally and practically. But it seems that a couple of the men think I'm now available to listen to their troubles, or be a friend with benefits. One has even suggested he leaves his wife (and my friend) for me. How do I tell them to stop, when I don't want to lose the friendship of their partners? Cynthia, Folkestone
A You just tell them. Thank them for the support they have given you. Tell them that you're feeling much more able to cope, and you would rather they didn't visit on their own.
Denne historien er fra October 22, 2024-utgaven av Woman's Weekly.
Start din 7-dagers gratis prøveperiode på Magzter GOLD for å få tilgang til tusenvis av utvalgte premiumhistorier og 9000+ magasiner og aviser.
Allerede abonnent ? Logg på
Denne historien er fra October 22, 2024-utgaven av Woman's Weekly.
Start din 7-dagers gratis prøveperiode på Magzter GOLD for å få tilgang til tusenvis av utvalgte premiumhistorier og 9000+ magasiner og aviser.
Allerede abonnent? Logg på
GARDEN notes
Dodge the chill with a minibreak in a cosy hotel
WINTER boltholes
Hearty food for a crowd to tuck into.Use our recipe for salt beef brisket(right) or swap for other cooked meat.
Bonny BUFFET
Usher in the new year with our prep-ahead classics
A YEAR to remember
For these three women, 2024 has been life-changing – for the best
'My rotating rodent was ahead of his time'
When it comes to animals, I grew up making allowances for all cats, however grumpy, and dogs with smiley faces (I apologise unreservedly to 'resting dog face' breeds for my blatant prejudice).
Look back AT 2024
Iconic Only Fools star Sir David Jason reflects on his 60-year career and describes the shock of discovering a daughter he never knew
CHRISTMAS health tricks
Your wellbeing doesn't need to hit the skids when the festivities begin. Take our quiz and find out how to stay on track – while still having fun
Almost 85? Don't remind me!'
Iconic Only Fools star Sir David Jason reflects on his 60-year career and describes the shock of discovering a daughter he never knew
What's with the BISCUITS?
Jammie Dodgers herald change at the charity shop
One Good TURN
Emma’s little girl knew the true meaning of Christmas
