SEX & LOVE: When Sex Is Off the Table
Prevention US|September 2022
If one partner's desire has slumped, here's how to talk about it-with care and respect.
RACHEL ZAR, L.M.F.T., C.S.T.
SEX & LOVE: When Sex Is Off the Table

When sex fades within a romantic W relationship, many people think the relationship is doomed to failure, and that may lead to distress, confusion, or an appointment with a sex therapist. But the truth is, there are many healthy reasons a couple may stop having sex. It may be due to illness, a change in physical ability, or other shifts that have an impact on sexual functioning or pleasure (for example, pregnancy or menopause). It can also happen when stress gets in the way for one or both partners, other parts of the relationship are taking priority, or a major life transition, such as having kids or taking care of a parent, takes up time and energy. Or it may be that one or both partners are on the asexuality spectrum or just not currently interested in being sexual. All are valid reasons.

This story is from the September 2022 edition of Prevention US.

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