Marriage which is a very sensitive and pious relation, Vwhich might start from affection, social pressure or the compulsion of getting settled in life, may or may not lead you towards true love. Finding true love is sometime arduous but have you ever noticed what the difference between love and attachment is.
If somebody obeys you, or you are having a full control on that person it means that you are attached with that person. My dear it's not love. Love happens only when you accept all the good and the flaws also. Love never needs any demarcation. It does not have any boundaries.
Getting married does not always mean that you love your spouse. When expectations are still alive in marriage, then consider your relationship is in the right direction. Sometimes, you are only attached to that person.
When love does not encounter trust, companionship and acceptance then it's a compromise. Many women in our society do live their whole life without love and respect which they deserve in a relationship.
I call them a single wife.
What Is A Single Wife?
A single wife is the one who has no emotional connect left with her man. She feels unwanted, undesired and unloved. The loneliness prevails in their mind and soul! The question arises in their mind that "Are they not meant for being loved?"
It's totally our fault that we blame us first and become totally ruthless towards ourselves. Relationship is destroyed due to stereotypical gender inequalities, incompatibility and the lack of connect with each other. We, being a woman, usually wrap the marital discord as we can't face the heart-burning question which the society hurls at us- "What problem you had, your husband earns so good?", "You have such a nice house; nice children, look after them!"
Journey Of Marriage!
This story is from the July 2023 edition of Woman's Era.
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