First-Timer Tips

Heading to a young rider's first event with their horse can be intimidating. Use these myths and truths to make it smoother sailing for yourself and your young rider.

- SHYANNE SMITH, WITH JENNIFER PAULSON

Whether your child started out with a goal of competing horseback when they first started riding or it became a goal once they'd logged many hours in the saddle, the simple idea of attending your first show can be paralyzing for both parent and young rider. The feelings of excitement can quickly turn to anxiety due to the great unknown.

In my work with youth riders of all levels, as well as my lifelong experience as a competitive horsewoman, I see this happen all the time with first-time competitors and their parents. I'm here to dispel the mythsand tell you the truths-about attending your first show, including how to prepare to ensure that you and your child feel ready to hit the show pen, jackpot, or playday and have the time of your lives.

Myth: I need a six-figure horse to compete anywhere.

Truth: People call all the time who are interested in getting their kids into lessons, but they're afraid of the expense. They've been fed the idea that the only way to compete is at the top level, where the investment is admittedly higher than some families can afford. The fact is there are many levels of competition, tiers of investment of time and money, and opportunities to enjoy horses and learn about competition.

Take the time to research opportunities in your area that fit within your means and feel your way as you gain experience within that barn or program. Maybe keeping your horse at home and hauling to lessons is the best way to manage expenses for your situation. Perhaps leasing a horse is an option for your child's competitive level, reducing some of the initial cost. There are many ways to provide your child with horse and competitive experiences without going bankrupt.

Myth: My child's horse should be entered in every event at a competition.