I want a baby and tired of waiting for husband to agree

I'M struggling with the fact that my husband won't commit to us having a baby.

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I'm 33 and he is 35, so the time seems perfect. I'm conscious of not leaving it too long in case it's difficult for us to get pregnant.

A lot of my friends have had babies recently and a couple are pregnant, which is making it even harder for me. Every time I bring it up, he says he wants a family, but “not now”. If not now, then when?

I've come to realise he's actually quite selfish - he loves his free time, playing football and going on frequent cycling trips with his mates. The bottom line is, I don’t think he wants to give that up.

He's made a few comments about his friends with kids having no freedom and that it sounds like “a nightmare”. Well, his nightmare is my dream.